F!Ck the Beauty Standards
... and how a "normal" latex girl tries to change the world
(or at least the kinky community...)
Life continues with or without you doing what you are interested in.
At some point it just hit me – and oh yes believe me it was really uncomfortable outside of my comfortzone (and sometimes it still is), but you’ll get used to it, and it is worth it!
So this is basically what I do nowadays: I try to inspire and motivate others to do the same especially within the kinky/BDSM/hedonism/fetsh Community – cause being fat in a fatshaming society, were pretty privileges opens you every door, is already hard enough but then getting even more vulnerable and showing your body in alternative, sometimes revealing, clothing is even more next level.
At this point I wanna thank you for reading this, visiting my site and hopefully I could leave some interesting thoughts on your mind 🙂
I am FluffyQueenie
But you can call me Queenie 🙂 (yes not Fluffy! I am not a three-headed dog ;))
And believe it or not but once upon a time I was really insecure with my body, shy and hided myself in baggy clothing. I wasn’t always fat, therefore I learned it the hard way how fast society changes the behavior towards you if you gain weight.
And to be honest, I myself was my darkest enemy. I promised myself over and over and over: This time you get this done, and when you are back in shape you can finally join the BDSM community, can wear sexy outfits blablabla.
But well: round is a shape too 😛 and isn’t life not too short to wait until we are finally happy with ourself? Finally healthy, finally fit and well-trained or whatever you associate your goals with?
I was so annoyed of just focusing on my future and who I wanted to be, that I forgot who I already was and what I could already do and enjoy.
